“You might feel lighter and more vibrant after breaking up with a soulmate,” Rappaport explains. Before you allow yourself to totally move on, you may even get back together and break up a few times. However, you may discover that your soulmate has been dragging you down the entire time.
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What happens when you let go of a soulmate?
Losing a soul mate, contrary to popular belief, will really awaken your soul. It will give you the insight you need to figure out what you want from your future relationship, what you're willing to put up with, and what you'll never put up with again. Losing your soul mate teaches you a lot of valuable lessons.
Can a soulmate hurt you?
Many people misunderstand the term “soulmate,” thinking it simply means “the person you love” or “the person you're marrying.”
But the truth is that finding or meeting your soulmate is a completely different emotion and experience than simply being with someone you love, as those of you who have found or met your soulmate will attest.
Not only have you gone head over heals in love with your soulmate, but you also have this connection that you sense on an intellectual, spiritual, or emotional level. Many people find it challenging to put into words how they feel. Your soulmate, on the other hand, has your full heart and the relationship is far more intense than a normal one. This person is not just your other half, but they're also the only person who truly understands you, the one person who makes you feel at ease and as if you've known them for many lifetimes (which your soul has). You can't picture life without this person, but the saddest part is when you and your soulmate are simply not meant to be together in this life. Not yet, at least. Perhaps you will be in the future life. However, you've tried everything and the relationship is now toxic.
The heartache of saying goodbye to a soulmate is almost intolerable. It's like an ordinary breakup, but a hundred times more dramatic and emotionally destructive as if a piece of yourself dies when that person leaves your life.
After you and your soulmate discover you're not destined to be together in this incarnation, life goes on like this:
You find love again, but it'll never feel the same.
Yes, you will fall in love again, possibly marry, and go on to live a happy and fulfilled life. Even so, there will always be a sense that something is missing. You can't quite put your finger on it, but you occasionally feel a void that isn't being filled, regardless of how happy your life or new relationship is. It's a part of you that you can't get to. It's as though no matter how long it's been since you and your soulmate broke up, it never goes away. Love never feels the same the second time around. You know it deep down in your heart, whether you confess it or not.
No matter how many years go by, you still think about the memories.
It will always be tough to let go of the memories. You'll tend to replay those memories in your thoughts a lot, especially if you're going through a difficult period in your life. Your thoughts will always stray back to that spot, back to that time you were together, and back to that life you once enjoyed that no longer exists in the present, no matter how many years pass. You'll have odd flashbacks, which will sometimes appear out of nowhere. But, whether it's pleasant or horrible memories, you'll always remember them. It's the only thing you have left of them.
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You become an entirely different person.
When you and your soulmate part ways, a piece of you dies. You never feel the same way twice. You change a lot about yourself, notably the way you deal with heartfelt topics like dating and love. It's as if the loss's sorrow corrupted you from the inside out, altering your life as you knew it.
The line “They will love the better you, but I still hold the ghost of you” from Sam Smith's song “Palace” is a perfect example of this. You just adopt a whole different persona, a mere phantom of yourself, and live a completely different life. However, most people prefer this version of you since you've learned and grown so much since then, and you can see things more clearly today. Even if you've gone through a lot of agony to get here, you might miss some aspects of your old self now and then.
You might question all the “bad that happened.
The issue is, if you're not with your soulmate despite trying everything you can to make it work, it's probably because things have gotten poisonous or unhealthy. The intensity of being with a soulmate can frequently lead to numerous disputes and arguments, which can quickly devolve into something unpleasant and destructive. However, as time passes and you gain more distance from all of this, you begin to notice all of it “wrong” in a new light. You begin to wonder if some of that is true “if the “bad” were all your fault, or if you might have managed things differently. You could wonder how horrible things were in the first place, or if you simply overreacted at the time.
They still appear in your dreams.
Years and years may pass, but your soulmate will continue to emerge in your dreams. It's how your subconscious mind and spirit cope with the fact that your soulmate is no longer at your side in this world. You may be completely fine with this fact in regular life, yet the agony still persists unconsciously.
You will settle into your new life, but your soul will always carry this person with you.
You'll move on, you'll have fun, you'll go on adventures, and you'll live. But, in some way, they will always be a part of you. Their presence, their memories – you'll carry them all with you in your heart and spirit. You and your soulmate will reunite in another life when everything is meant to be, and it will be magical. But in the meantime, live life to the fullest. Love with all of your heart. Take a trip around the globe. Make an effort to succeed. And strive to be the best version of yourself.
How often do soulmates get back together?
We've all heard about that one couple who has an on-again, off-again relationship. Sometimes all you want to do is send them a handbook to a more intelligent breakup. Those wishy-washy romantics, on the other hand, might be onto something: About half of all couples get back together after a breakup, according to a recent study, and the reason for this is because they were unsure about breaking up in the first place.
While it's common sense to keep away from an old flame after breaking up, some people can persuade themselves that there are valid reasons to get back together. Couples who got back together felt their partner had changed for the better or that they would be better at communicating, according to a 2013 Kansas State University study that found nearly half of all couples reconcile. However, subsequent study reveals that their reason is more mundane.
Researchers from the University of Utah and the University of Toronto questioned people about why they might desire to stay in or quit their relationship in a series of experiments just published in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science. Optimism (hoping that the spouse will change), emotional commitment in the relationship, familial obligations, and dread of the uncertainty that would follow were all popular reasons for wanting to stay. The majority of people (66 percent) stated that they wanted to stay with their partner because of the intimacy and dependence they had formed over time.
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People who wanted to end a relationship mentioned emotional distance, a loss of trust, and general incompatibility as reasons (frequent fighting). And more than a third of those polled (38 percent) said they wanted to leave because their partner had been unfaithful. Despite their unfavorable thoughts, 49% of those thinking about leaving had mixed feelings about traveling. The findings, according to the researchers, are consistent with the fact that around half of divorced spouses reconcile.
How do you know if your soulmate is thinking of you?
You'll either hear their voice or feel their touch if you're sensitive to psychological touch. If your soulmate is thinking of you, you will sense their presence no matter where you are or what you are doing. This may be unsettling because you may hear their voice while attending a crucial business meeting, but don't be alarmed.
What a soulmate connection feels like?
A soul tie is just the feeling that another soul is present in your life for a reason. For example, if your life is extremely hectic and you meet a new potential friend or business partner, the feeling that you share a soul connection with this person may motivate you to make time in your schedule for the relationship. If a friend says they have to give up their pet because they have to move overseas unexpectedly, your clairsentient, or feeling, psychic pathway may give you the impression that you have a soul tie with this animal and that adopting it into your house is the proper thing to do for both of you. Soul ties might be thought of as the ties that bind, like in Bruce Springsteen's song!
Do soulmates stay together forever?
Soulmates don't have to be together indefinitely. Soulmates can often go on once the lesson has been learned and the soul has been awakened. Even if soulmates do not remain physically together indefinitely, their love endures. Soulmates have such an indelible impact on us that we will never forget them.
Can your soulmate be in a relationship?
Soulmates don't always have to be romantic. Whether you like it or not, the majority of these relationships will be platonic. “A soulmate might be a lover, but it can also be one of our best friends, a brother, or a sister. A soulmate can be anyone with whom we share a strong bond “Kaur explains.
How do you break a soulmate connection?
- Tell the person's soul that you wish them well in life but that you don't want to be in a relationship with them any longer. (This release will not be heard by the person's physical ears, but it will be heard by their spirit!)