âme sur f (plural âmes surs) is a noun. a perfect match (someone with whom one has a special connection)
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How do you call your soul mate?
I couldn't think straight since I was so nervous to speak with him! (NOT my usual demeanor… but he was just so darn cute!)
Five years of bringing out the best in one other and challenging each other to reach our full potential even when it's difficult. Snuggles, words of affirmation (both of our #1 Love Languages), and unconditional love have been a part of our lives for the past five years. Five years of managing difficult talks and huge life transformations based on mutual respect, trust, and dedication that has only grown stronger over time.
I'm posting this because we've heard from many of our clients and community members that you're ready to summon their Life Partners – and I know just how you feel.
I was confident in my ability to complete my task “person,” but had no idea where to look for him. I went on a number of dates, had my heart broken a few times, and wondered if my soulmate was truly out there.
I'd want to share the technique I used today with you so you can see if it works for you – or share it with a friend or loved one who is looking for help “It's You.”
Then, in my next piece, I'll reveal some practical methods that have helped us 98 percent of the time develop a partnership that is both genuinely nourishing and truly empowering.
(Yes, we, like everyone else, have our times!) But, thanks to these methods, we've been able to minimize unneeded drama to less than 2% of our relationship.)
How I Called in My Soulmate
It all started with a conversation I had with Gigi Sage, my mentor and now-business partner, six months prior to Sunny's arrival… I told her I was bored of dating, and I knew deep down that relationships weren't “it.” I was looking forward to meeting my Life Partner.
She'd been a sought-after communication and relationship specialist for over three decades at that point. But it took me nearly that long to admit that I didn't have it all worked out on my own since she was my mother!
STEP 1: Get crystal clear about the VALUES you want your life partner to share.
- Begin by jotting down your top 10-20 values for your partner, then ask yourself, “Which of these are genuinely non-negotiables?”
“Mission driven aspires to make a positive effect on the world,” for example, was one of my top values. I didn't stop there, though! I offered a brief description of what that means to me. Carry out this exercise for each of your Top 5 Values.
STEP 2: As you're dating, remember your Top 5 Values. These are your non-negotiables.
If you go on a date with someone who doesn't share your values, don't go on another date with them. (It would be a waste of time if you were actually hunting for your life companion.)
We see a lot of people who stay with someone for months or even years in the hopes that they will change. People's underlying values, on the other hand, rarely change and shared values are one of the most important criteria in deciding whether a relationship will last.
STEP 3: Dance them into your life.
You might believe I'm joking, but I'm not! I was really into Omi's song “Cheerleader” when I was phoning in “The One.” So Gigi encouraged me to imagine the man I was calling in and dance to that music every day (who I would be a great cheerleader for).
“Oh I guess I found myself a cheerleader…” we sang as we danced around her Amsterdam apartment. It may sound ridiculous, but I believe this was an important factor in attracting the connection I want.
In your imagination, you can only accomplish so much. The remainder is a matter of energy. Find your favorite song, listen to it on a daily basis, and dance and sing your heart out. Isn't it worth a shot?
Instead, give it a 60-day trial run. Keep it if it works for you. If it isn't, toss it out.
Are soulmates real?
Soulmates are real and can be confirmed by science, according to the very out-there website The Science of Soulmates. However, after reading through the lengthy, wordy site, you'll discover that the “scientifically verified” hypotheses stated on the site to illustrate that soulmates are real are quite woo-woo.
TL;DR: Soulmates appear to be one manifestation of the energy patterns that run through everything in the universe. “Scientific instruments recorded proof of a fundamental energy pattern that exposes the source of existence and the phenomena of soulmates,” according to the website.
Despite the fact that this “proof” is muddled and difficult to understand, it appears that some people believe that soulmates can be discovered by researching energy patterns. I'm open to this idea I was raised in a nontraditional environment and am open to many transcendental concepts but I'm not convinced this site actually gives much scientific proof that soulmates exist. So, it's back to square one.
Who can be soulmate?
A soulmate is someone with whom you have a natural or profound connection. Similarity, love, romance, platonic relationships, comfort, intimacy, sexuality, sexual activity, spirituality, compatibility, and trust are all examples of this.



