You will feel lost, bewildered, and helpless if your soulmate abandons you. Any loss of a connection is heartbreaking. However, losing a soulmate can be traumatic and difficult to recover from. It could be for a variety of reasons that your soulmate departs your life. These are some of them:
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1) deciding to quit the relationship on one's own volition
2) Breaking your contract with your soulmate
3) Leaving the planet via exiting (pass away).
FEELS LIKE PART OF YOU IS DYING
A soulmate's departure, for whatever cause, is sad. It seems like a part of you is dying when your soulmate departs your life. Your soul will be ripped to shreds. You will, unfortunately, suffer from soulmate separation anxiety. Many days will be spent in misery, bitterness, and sadness. You may even feel enraged toward or aimed towards God, or the Divine. Why would the universe establish this link only for this to occur? Unfortunately, many people ask themselves this question.
Please remember that there is a reason for their departure before you sink into a pit of self-loathing and wonder what you did or said to cause them to go. It might not make sense to you right now. And it could take months or even years to figure out. However, in retrospect, you will have the clarity you require to comprehend why they left your life.
FEAR
Soulmates might leave your life for a variety of reasons. Fear is one of the main reasons why soulmates separate. In a soulmate connection, there will be a lot of emotional intimacy. It feels wonderful at first for both of you. However, as time passes, one of you may develop a phobia of the connection. Having such a strong link with another person can make even the bravest of people feel vulnerable.
LOSS OF CONTROL
Others may be concerned about losing control. Some people believe they are abandoning power when they are tightly linked to someone who knows everything about them. This might be rather frightening to some people.
Many people find it difficult to work through their sensitivity. It makes individuals feel extremely vulnerable to being hurt. The desire to flee stems from a person's inner fears. Consider the phrase “fight or flight.” You could be willing to put up a battle for the connection if it takes off.
FREE WILL
A soulmate may leave your life because they have exercised their free will and no longer wish to be in the connection. A soulmate can also choose to breach their soulmate contract and go in a new route with their life. Your soulmate connection has just been rejected by them. They may not even know why; they simply want to go in a different direction.
PULLING YOURSELF TOGETHER
It's time to pull yourself together and move on with your life after the tears, chocolates, tubs of ice cream, and wine. How can you accomplish that when you're in such a tumultuous situation? All you have to do now is put on your big girl or big boy clothes and reclaim your authority. We're not implying that this will be simple. However, millions of people have had this experience over the years.
One of the first things you should do is separate yourself from your absent soulmate's energy. It's a good idea to be patient with yourself and honor your soul throughout this period of recovery. It won't happen overnight, so don't hold your breath.
It's possible that your soulmate's departure will be permanent. However, it might also be for a limited duration. In the vast majority of soulmate relationships, we see this over and over again. During your time apart, you're each faced with the task of learning important life lessons. So that you have the maturity you need to have a more effective relationship if and when your partnership reunites.
What happens when your soul mate leaves you?
I've come up with a theory. There is a distinction to be made between someone with whom you can fall in love and someone who is your true soulmate. Being with one or the other is a very different experience. And if you've ever been with your soulmate, you'll be able to tell the difference. It's not just about falling in love with a soulmate; it's about a cosmically strong spiritual connection that goes a step further. Your soulmate truly owns your heart, and your connection is intense, pure, overwhelming, and amazing. It's a person that makes you feel so at ease that you can't fathom living without him or her, and you feel as if you've known each other for many lifetimes (which your soul probably has).
Since the dawn of time, I've felt like a part of my soul has loved you. Perhaps we're both from the same star system.
Now is the time to wait. It's possible that you and your soulmate were not meant to be together in the first place. Not yet, at least. Maybe in another life. But, for the time being, you've tried everything and your relationship isn't working out. Not due to a lack of affection, but due to circumstances, other factors, and who knows what else. The ship is in danger of sinking.
Waving goodbye to your soulmate is an excruciatingly painful experience. It feels as if all the strings inside you are breaking, as if you don't know who you are or where you're going from here. As though a piece of your soul had been taken away. ‘It's not the end of the world,' your pals will tell you. However, it feels precisely how it was.
Giving a portion of your soul to someone is preferable to giving a bit of your heart. Because spirits are inexhaustible.
So, what's next? You'll eventually find love again, but it won't be the same. It will be a pleasant relationship, but something will always be lacking. It's impossible to explain rationally, but it doesn't go away.
Furthermore, you recall the recollections no matter how many years have passed. You'll never forget it. Especially when really horrible or extremely good things occur, which you know only your love could truly comprehend. You'll feel compelled to reach out to them, but you won't because we utilize our minds rather than our hearts as our primary navigation system. You'll have random deja-vu now and then, with a fragrance or a sound transporting you back to the moment you shared. You'll always have it with you, trapped in a dusty cellar at the depths of your heart with a heavy key.
Finally, you will transform into a new individual. When your soulmate leaves, a piece of your soul dies with them, and you'll never be the same again. Your new lover will make you happy, but it won't be the same insane emotion that washed over your entire body and soul before. It will be far more stable, reasonable, tranquil, and reassuring. Which, in the end, may be a good thing. Nobody can live their entire lives on a never-ending rollercoaster.
Finally, you continue to dream of your soulmate, no matter how long it has been since you last saw them.
It's true that soulmates don't grow on trees. It's not easy to track down these people. And even if you did discover them, it's probable you didn't manage to keep them.
True love is a magical, mystical, and overwhelming experience that hardly everyone gets to have. It is, nevertheless, complex and challenging.
It reminds us of water that we desire to hold in our hands. We know that no matter how hard we try to keep our fingers together, it will eventually find a way to escape, leaving only our damp flesh to tell us that it was once here.
Perhaps soulmates are like stars in the sky's dark satin. Some have been dead for a long time, but their light continues to shine on us. Some are present, but we are unable to see them. Some people have been in the same spot for so long that we take them for granted. As we progress toward the promise of a new day, they collectively set alight the sky we gaze up at for meaning and inspiration.
It is possible to spend a lot of money on love, but it is always more expensive to not love. One of my favorite poets put it like way:
So, I guess we'll just keep looking and maybe finding, but most importantly, living and loving.
Can your soulmate leave and come back?
“You might feel lighter and more vibrant after breaking up with a soulmate,” Rappaport explains. Before you allow yourself to totally move on, you may even get back together and break up a few times. However, you may discover that your soulmate has been dragging you down the entire time.
Can soulmates not end up together?
Soulmates can often go on once the lesson has been learned and the soul has been awakened. Sometimes soulmate relationships can last a lifetime, while other times they are too powerful and must be ended. Even if soulmates do not remain physically together indefinitely, their love endures.
How do you know if your soulmate is thinking of you?
Psychological sense of touch You'll either hear their voice or feel their presence. If your soulmate is thinking of you, you will sense their presence no matter where you are or what you are doing. This may be unsettling because you may hear their voice while attending a crucial business meeting, but don't be alarmed.
How do you know if your soul is connected to someone?
A soul tie is just the feeling that another soul is present in your life for a reason. For example, if your life is extremely hectic and you meet a new potential friend or business partner, the feeling that you share a soul connection with this person may motivate you to make time in your schedule for the relationship. If a friend says they have to give up their pet because they have to move overseas unexpectedly, your clairsentient, or feeling, psychic pathway may give you the impression that you have a soul tie with this animal and that adopting it into your house is the proper thing to do for both of you. Soul ties might be thought of as the ties that bind, like in Bruce Springsteen's song!
How many Soulmates do we have?
You can have multiple soulmates. “You only have one twin flame,” says the narrator. According to the belief, if you meet someone with whom you have a strong connection, there's a good chance they're a member of your larger soul family.
How do you break a soulmate connection?
- Tell the person's soul that you wish them well in life but that you don't want to be in a relationship with them any longer. (This release will not be heard by the person's physical ears, but it will be heard by their spirit!)
How often do soulmates get back together?
We've all heard about that one couple who has an on-again, off-again relationship. Sometimes all you want to do is send them a handbook to a more intelligent breakup. Those wishy-washy romantics, on the other hand, might be onto something: About half of all couples get back together after a breakup, according to a recent study, and the reason for this is because they were unsure about breaking up in the first place.
While it's common sense to keep away from an old flame after breaking up, some people can persuade themselves that there are valid reasons to get back together. Couples who got back together felt their partner had changed for the better or that they would be better at communicating, according to a 2013 Kansas State University study that found nearly half of all couples reconcile. However, subsequent study reveals that their reason is more mundane.
Researchers from the University of Utah and the University of Toronto questioned people about why they might desire to stay in or quit their relationship in a series of experiments just published in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science. Optimism (hoping that the spouse will change), emotional commitment in the relationship, familial obligations, and dread of the uncertainty that would follow were all popular reasons for wanting to stay. The majority of people (66 percent) stated that they wanted to stay with their partner because of the intimacy and dependence they had formed over time.
People who wanted to end a relationship mentioned emotional distance, a loss of trust, and general incompatibility as reasons (frequent fighting). And more than a third of those polled (38 percent) said they wanted to leave because their partner had been unfaithful. Despite their unfavorable thoughts, 49% of those thinking about leaving had mixed feelings about traveling. The findings, according to the researchers, are consistent with the fact that around half of divorced spouses reconcile.
How do you know if the universe wants you to be with someone?
There will be synchronicity and energetic flow when the universe wants you to be with someone. You'll meet someone who has all of the qualities you're looking for in a companion. Your ideals will be in alignment, your energies will be balanced, and there will be plenty of room for expansion.
Can a soulmate be toxic?
Many people misunderstand the term “soulmate,” thinking it simply means “the person you love” or “the person you're marrying.”
But the truth is that finding or meeting your soulmate is a completely different emotion and experience than simply being with someone you love, as those of you who have found or met your soulmate will attest.
Not only have you gone head over heals in love with your soulmate, but you also have this connection that you sense on an intellectual, spiritual, or emotional level. Many people find it challenging to put into words how they feel. Your soulmate, on the other hand, has your full heart and the relationship is far more intense than a normal one. This person is not just your other half, but they're also the only person who truly understands you, the one person who makes you feel at ease and as if you've known them for many lifetimes (which your soul has). You can't picture life without this person, but the saddest part is when you and your soulmate are simply not meant to be together in this life. Not yet, at least. Perhaps you will be in the future life. However, you've tried everything and the relationship is now toxic.
The heartache of saying goodbye to a soulmate is almost intolerable. It's like an ordinary breakup, but a hundred times more dramatic and emotionally destructive as if a piece of yourself dies when that person leaves your life.
After you and your soulmate discover you're not destined to be together in this incarnation, life goes on like this:
You find love again, but it'll never feel the same.
Yes, you will fall in love again, possibly marry, and go on to live a happy and fulfilled life. Even so, there will always be a sense that something is missing. You can't quite put your finger on it, but you occasionally feel a void that isn't being filled, regardless of how happy your life or new relationship is. It's a part of you that you can't get to. It's as though no matter how long it's been since you and your soulmate broke up, it never goes away. Love never feels the same the second time around. You know it deep down in your heart, whether you confess it or not.
No matter how many years go by, you still think about the memories.
It will always be tough to let go of the memories. You'll tend to replay those memories in your thoughts a lot, especially if you're going through a difficult period in your life. Your thoughts will always stray back to that spot, back to that time you were together, and back to that life you once enjoyed that no longer exists in the present, no matter how many years pass. You'll have odd flashbacks, which will sometimes appear out of nowhere. But, whether it's pleasant or horrible memories, you'll always remember them. It's the only thing you have left of them.
You become an entirely different person.
When you and your soulmate part ways, a piece of you dies. You never feel the same way twice. You change a lot about yourself, notably the way you deal with heartfelt topics like dating and love. It's as if the loss's sorrow corrupted you from the inside out, altering your life as you knew it.
The line “They will love the better you, but I still hold the ghost of you” from Sam Smith's song “Palace” is a perfect example of this. You just adopt a whole different persona, a mere phantom of yourself, and live a completely different life. However, most people prefer this version of you since you've learned and grown so much since then, and you can see things more clearly today. Even if you've gone through a lot of agony to get here, you might miss some aspects of your old self now and then.
You might question all the “bad that happened.
The issue is, if you're not with your soulmate despite trying everything you can to make it work, it's probably because things have gotten poisonous or unhealthy. The intensity of being with a soulmate can frequently lead to numerous disputes and arguments, which can quickly devolve into something unpleasant and destructive. However, as time passes and you gain more distance from all of this, you begin to notice all of it “wrong” in a new light. You begin to wonder if some of that is true “if the “bad” were all your fault, or if you might have managed things differently. You could wonder how horrible things were in the first place, or if you simply overreacted at the time.
They still appear in your dreams.
Years and years may pass, but your soulmate will continue to emerge in your dreams. It's how your subconscious mind and spirit cope with the fact that your soulmate is no longer at your side in this world. You may be completely fine with this fact in regular life, yet the agony still persists unconsciously.
You will settle into your new life, but your soul will always carry this person with you.
You'll move on, you'll have fun, you'll go on adventures, and you'll live. But, in some way, they will always be a part of you. Their presence, their memories – you'll carry them all with you in your heart and spirit. You and your soulmate will reunite in another life when everything is meant to be, and it will be magical. But in the meantime, live life to the fullest. Love with all of your heart. Take a trip around the globe. Make an effort to succeed. And strive to be the best version of yourself.