There is no verse in the Bible that portrays God creating someone just for the purpose of being a good match for someone else. We were made for a lot more than that!
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That isn't to argue that God isn't picky about who he allows us to marry. We are aware that:
1) God loves us so much that he knows every single hair on our heads (Luke 12:7),
3) Uses everything for our benefit (Romans 8:28).
As a result, it's acceptable to assume that God has a hand in who we spend the remainder of our lives with.
A godly marriage can provide all of the connection, love, and commitment that people want in a soulmatebut not because everything is flawless and simple and you can ride off into the sunset. However, it is because of a faithfulness to God's Word.
Ephesians 5:22-33 and Colossians 3:18-21 are excellent places to begin learning about what a godly marriage should include. Check out 7 Inspiring Scriptures to Build Your Marriage On for additional scriptures.
As Song of Solomon 3:4 tells us, “finding the one your soul loves” is possiblebut not in the idolatrous-Jerry-McGuire sense. Instead, it's done in a godly, healthy manner.
What does God say about your soulmate?
There is no such thing as a true “soulmate” according to the Bible. While there might be a soul tie or link formed when a person is intimate with another person, the Bible does not explicitly state that a predestined relationship exists between two people.
How do you know when God puts someone in your life?
God is very much a part of our life.
- You are aware of when I sit or stand. Even though I'm far away, you know what I'm thinking.
What is soulmate connection?
A soulmate is someone with whom you have a natural or profound connection. Similarity, love, romance, platonic relationships, comfort, intimacy, sexuality, sexual activity, spirituality, compatibility, and trust are all examples of this.
The relationship is against God's word
If you're in a relationship that goes against the Bible's values, that's the first clear clue you should end it.
Many of us begin relationships because we feel so connected or in love with the other person, but if the relationship clearly contradicts God's word, it's a clear evidence that it's not one that God endorses.
Feelings and emotions come and go, but God's word is constant; He does not alter.
If you're in an adulterous relationship (cheating on your spouse), for example, you might feel a lot of affection for that person.
However, you'll have to decide whether your relationship with this individual is more essential to you than your salvation at some point.
We can't serve both God and ourselves at the same time. We must choose one. We have the option of choosing between fleeting bliss or eternal life.
The person encourages you to disobey God
Let no one deceive you with empty words, for God's vengeance is coming against the children of disobedience because of these things. Ephesians5:6
If that individual encourages you to disobey God, it's a clear sign that God is urging you to quit the relationship.
Is this individual always urging me to break God's law in order to enjoy worldly pleasures?
Do they ever try to talk me out of going to church or spending time with God?
Do they act as if God's obedience is a choice rather than a necessity?
If you answered yes to any of the questions above, it's possible that God is asking you to flee.
We have a tendency to believe that if we stay with someone long enough, they will change.
Pay more attention to a person's behavior than to what they say. If they're encouraging you to disobey God now, odds are they'll be encouraging you to disobey God in three years.
You have no control when you're with them
No servant can serve two masters because he will either despise one and adore the other, or he will cling to one and despise the other. You can't serve God and mammon at the same time. 16:13 Luke 16:13
When you're with this individual, do you ever feel out of control? Are you moved by emotion and spontaneity? When you're around them, do you go on a spending spree and make unwise decisions?
God desires for us to be wise, rational, and prudent. The enemy wants us to do whatever we want and to give in to our instincts.
When we don't have control over our thoughts and feelings, we make poor life decisions that can lead to major issues down the road.
If you find yourself unable to say no to that person or if they have complete control over your actions, it's likely that they're attempting to manipulate you. So, heed the warning and flee.
You are being treated poorly
If you feel neglected or mistreated, it's time to terminate the relationship.
It makes no difference how long you've been together or how many children you have; if your partner is consistently treating you badly, God is telling you it's time to terminate the relationship.
The person is more important to you than God
We humans have the ability to create idols out of anything and anyone. When someone becomes more important to you than God, it's time to end the relationship.
We have made that person a god in our lives when we seek to please someone over our relationship with God.
Rather than our Heavenly Father, we have placed our trust and hope in a person who is incapable of meeting our needs.
When you find yourself surrendering your Christian principles to please someone, you've made them an idol.
Perhaps it's time to take a step back and reconsider your priorities: is your relationship with God more essential than your romantic relationship?
The relationship has become toxic and overbearing
God is advising you to leave the connection if it has become a source of chronic stress in your life.
Consistent disagreement between two people makes it impossible for them to be in a healthy, happy relationship.
If there is no peace and there is ongoing regret and fighting, it is necessary to pray and seek God's guidance and counsel.
Unequally yoked
Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what kind of association does righteousness have with unrighteousness? What kind of relationship does light have with darkness? 6:14 in 2 Corinthians
How do I know if God is asking me to do something?
God was preparing me, though I didn't realize it at the time, for a massive outpouring of His love. And if He hadn't gained my attention first, I wouldn't have known how to respond.
Don't dismiss God's sign when repeated messages attract your attention. Dig in, learn as much as you can, and absorb everything you can. If you don't, you might miss out on whatever He's trying to give you. Even if it doesn't happen right away.
Friendly Fire
Your buddies are another evident indicator that God is attempting to attract your attention.
Don't dismiss what a few excellent people are saying you just because it's not what you want to hear just because it's not what you want to hear. Yes, the truth is difficult to accept. However, it is always preferable to see something than to be blind. It's also possible that it'll be a
How do you know God is preparing you for a breakthrough?
So, here are three clues that God is preparing you for a great breakthrough that is just around the corner.
1. If God is removing harmful people, places, and things from your life, it could be a sign that a breakthrough is on the way.
God does not construct on sloping ground. God does not strive to cultivate seeds in unsuitable soil. And God will wash you of all sin before bringing you into his presence. My argument is that before God can execute a magnificent work in your life, you must first go through a season of preparation.
Before God blesses you with a breakthrough, he may first remove the people, places, and things in your life that are causing heart damage. If God blessed us before preparing us, we may overlook the blessing of misusing it after we have it. Take a look at what Jesus said in John 15:15. It reads:
My Father is the vinedresser, and I am the genuine vine.
He prunes every branch that bears fruit in me that does not bear fruit, and he prunes every branch that does bear fruit so that it bears more fruit… I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him bears abundant fruit, since you can do nothing without me.”
In John 15:2, you'll notice something interesting. Even if you are bearing fruit for God, Jesus indicated that by pruning you, he will cause you to bear even more fruit for him. This is an excellent illustration of how God frequently requires us to go through a painful season of preparation before he can create even more fruit in our lives. Pruning is the process of removing superfluous material from your life so that more can be produced.
This pruning process can be very difficult and painful if God is removing the people, places, and things in your life that are impeding your growth. Just remember that this is all part of the process leading up to your breakthrough.
How do I know my breakthrough is coming?
Perhaps everything is up in the air, and chaos reigns supreme. Perhaps Murphy's Law is overworked. And perhaps you have no notion how you'll get yourself out of a seemingly hopeless predicament. Nonetheless, you are at ease and secure.
Everyone around you may be wondering how you're managing to retain your calm in the midst of the chaos. They might even believe you're burying your head in denial. Your faith in being exactly where you're supposed to be, on the other hand, is steadfast. In the middle of a hurricane, you're resting quietly in a boat. This indicates that your breakthrough is approaching. Your soul understands the importance of remaining still and waiting.
When a breakthrough is on the horizon, you can feel the winds of change shifting in a way that will eventually lead you in the correct direction. Enjoy that strange, enchanting sensation of foreboding. Things are about to become even better.