Is My Soulmate Out There

1. You already know it.

There is no way to know if you've found your soulmate without taking a test. You only need to know it to figure it out. You must have a gut feeling that this individual is the one for you. I know that seems foolish, but you'll know what I'm talking about when you experience that feeling. You should be energised by their company, at ease enough to open out entirely, and overjoyed with affection. Of course, connections take different forms for different people.

How do you know if your soulmate is out there?

Yes, it is correct. Our imperfections serve us well. Every characteristic has both a positive and a bad side. It is each person's responsibility to always look for the positive, even when things do not appear to be going well. Each imperfection almost always has an advantage. People who are obstinate make good decision makers. People that are very organized excel in paying their debts on time.

Do all soulmates end up together?

Nothing compares to spending time with “the one,” who appears to have been sent from on high. When people get in touch with their heart's desire, they sense a synergistic connection that is difficult to define.

It's why there are so many songs, poems, and stories about soulmates, twin flames, and kindred spirits. However, if you listen closely to those songs and stories, you'll notice that some of them have a tragic tone to them. When Shakespeare observed, “the channel of pure love never did run smooth,” he was quite correct.

The truth is that not all “soulmates” are meant to be together in the long run. This may appear to be blasphemy, yet history and literature demonstrate differently. Consider the following characters: Marc Antony and Cleopatra, Romeo and Juliet, Tristan and Isolt, Gueinivere and Lancelot, Countess Olenska and Newland Archer, and so on. The list could go on and on.

THESE ARE GREAT QUESTIONS THAT ARE OFTEN MET WITH UNSATISFYING ANSWERS.NONETHELESS, HERE ARE FIVE THAT HIGHLIGHT SOME KEY REASONS WHY SOME SOULMATES STRUGGLE AND DON'T ALWAYS WORK OUT.

• One of the most basic reasons is that some soulmates enter a person's life at specific times in their lives, making sense for that stage but not for others. For example, some people meet in college or their early twenties and enjoy sharing their experiences as young adults. It's as though they're two peas in a pod. However, as they get older, they realize they have different values and begin to drift apart. Another example is when soulmates act as a creative muse for each other. The relationship will be over once the job is finished.
• Kindred spirit connections don't always work out due to societal / cultural rules and customs. In this instance, a person's family and/or religion may put a lot of pressure on him or her to marry someone of the same ethnicity or religious background. People fall in love with who they fall in love with, which is a problem. Isn't it true that love may discriminate? When their soulmate fails to meet the parameters that are expected of them, a struggle ensues. It's not always simple to go against one's tribe. It's even more difficult if there's a history of genecide in the family, which fuels a stronger desire and pressure to marry within the same ethnic group. Of course, there are situations when a person's sexual orientation is frowned upon, if not outright outlawed, by their family, friends, or religious peers. People frequently live a parallel or hidden life when they find a same-sex love. They are able to satisfy both their inner and tribal demands in this way. It doesn't always work out well for the spouse who wants to live and love openly and honestly.
• They're not wedded to each other. Since the beginning of time, when marriage was invented, adultery has existed alongside it. This is because marriage was never intended to be a love affair in the past. Its purpose was to ensure the continuation of the family lineage as well as economic stability for the people. Outside of marriage, love, desire, and sensuality were always present. While people nowadays are more likely to marry for love than ever before, infidelity is nevertheless on the rise. This is due to a variety of factors. People marry at a young age when they are not yet ready. They also marry due of their social clocks, such as “it's time” or “everyone else is doing it.” Some people marry in order to start a family. Then, later in the marriage, severe disruptions in the partnership are common. People outgrow each other at times. They may still love their spouse, but they are no longer interested in them. Alternatively, they may be lonely in their marriage. As a result, people begin to search the outside for what they perceive is lacking. And when they find it in someone else, it's the start of a real soulmate rivalry. And it frequently ends in heartbreak for all parties involved.
• One of the most prevalent kindred spirit relationships that almost invariably fails is one in which one or both members of a couple have unhealed core weaknesses.
• Nothing beats the feeling of someone seeing you for who you are and understanding you on a deep level. They understand your suffering, and you understand theirs. This is frequently followed by statements like “you were made for me,” “you complete me,” and “I can't be myself without you.” The difficulty is that when people have unhealed relational wounds from childhood or previous relationships, such as neglect or abuse, these wounds gradually permeate into their current love. It feels like your soulmate has arrived and love has begun when someone sees you and seems to understand you, especially your anguish. Love, on the other hand, dies when one person feels compelled to take care of that sorrow, or when that agony is ignored.
• When one or both members of the pair in #4 continue to try to make their relationship work without doing their own inner work, the soulmate battle can get quite unpleasant! People frequently feel, whether consciously or subconsciously, that their partner is responsible for always knowing, desiring, needing, and complying with what they know, want, and need. This is an unjust burden to impose on a relationship. The partner who accepts responsibility for the other's load has now committed to providing substantial emotional support, which can be tiring. A co-dependent / dependent dynamic has been triggered, which is typically rooted in early childhood wounding. It normally doesn't deactivate until one person leaves or the relationship dynamics are drastically altered. This is because some people simply do not understand how to respect boundaries, set limitations, or ask for what they want or need. They assume that because their partner is their soulmate, they should just know what they want and need.

MANY DON'T UNDERSTAND THAT THEIR PARTNER, WHO MAY VERY WELL BE A SOULMATE, OFTEN HAS A TOTALLY DIFFERENT OPERATING SYSTEM. THEY THINK, WANT, NEED AND FEEL DIFFERENTLY. BELIEVING A PARTNER IS AN EXTENSION OF ONESELF (MEANING THAT THEY MUST THINK, WANT, NEED AND FEEL THE SAME AS THEIR PARTNER DOES) WITHOUT ANY SPACE FOR INDIVIDUATION, IS A SIGN THAT THIS TWIN FLAME CONNECTION HAS TURNED TOXIC.

A relationship with a soulmate, twin flame, or kindred spirit isn't always easy to work out. However, falling in love with your soulmate will always assist you in finding your way to your soul. All you have to do is go inside yourself and be willing to learn a few facts about yourself that you didn't know before. With that in mind, here are some basic “do-able” action items for you to consider.

• Determine which soulmate conflict best describes your current scenario. Are there any recurring themes or patterns in your relationship style? Are you terrified of defying your tribe and doing what you really want to do? Do you need to tend to some inner healing from your upbringing or prior relationships, for example?
• Why not examine your problem in more depth in Individual psychotherapy once you've identified it?
• A skilled therapist will assist you in connecting with your core vulnerable bits and unburdening them in a way that most people cannot.
• You might also attempt couples counseling with both you and your partner, so that you can not only better understand and empathize with your own concerns, but also with your partner's. And you'll figure out how to do it without feeling compelled to repair it.
• Set new goals for yourself, last but not least. Goals that will guide you on your soul's journey. Who would you be and what would you accomplish with your life if nothing else mattered? What kind of job would you like to have? What is something you've always wanted to try? What would you do with your time? What activities or hobbies do you think you'd enjoy? Allow your imagination to go wild and jot down everything.
• Try one or all of the suggestions you made in #4. Then, until death do you part, commit to being your own “Sole-Mate.”

THE BOTUMN LINE IS THIS; THERE ISN'T JUST ONE SOULMATE OUT THERE FOR YOU. IF THAT WERE THE CASE, THEN EVERYONE WOULD BE IN TROUBLE!

However, if you truly want to attract a soulmate who is ready, willing, and capable of navigating the many stages of a long-term relationship, you must first learn to be your own “Sole Mate.”

Nobody wants to hear the silver lining reality of soulmate struggles: you are the one you've been seeking for. So be yourself and do your thing!

When you put yourself out there and simply be and do you, you will eventually attract the appropriate match who is beneficial for your soul. And when you do, you could even be relieved that the previous one didn't work out. Your soulmate conflict did, in an odd and unwelcome way, work out, just not in the way you expected.

Remember, sometimes things not working out with your soulmate is also a gift from above!

Maura Matarese, M.A., LMHC, R.Y.T., is a Sudbury, Massachusetts-based psychotherapist, author, and yoga teacher. Check out her online course Finding Hope After Heartbreak; Learn The Secret How To Start Feeling Better Now if you feel like you've lost your twin flame or are having trouble with a soulmate. A free mini-course version is also available to test out first.

What age do you meet your soulmate?

The typical woman discovers her life partner at the age of 25, while males are more likely to find their soulmate at the age of 28, with half of people finding ‘the one' in their twenties, according to the study.

They also discovered that most people waited five months to declare “I love you” for the first time, as well as update their relationship status on Facebook, and six months to be granted their own drawer at their partner's house.

How many Soulmates do we have?

You can have multiple soulmates. “You only have one twin flame,” says the narrator. According to the belief, if you meet someone with whom you have a strong connection, there's a good chance they're a member of your larger soul family.

Where do soulmates meet?

If you're anything like me, you'll look like a clammy, wet trainwreck after every workout. The gym isn't the place to flaunt your gorgeous side, but you don't have to look like a swan all of the time if you're serious about someone. If there's a regular at the gym you'd want to meet, go up to him or her when you're ready. Not to go all schoolgirl on you, but if approaching strangers makes you anxious, bring a friend with you. You're not the only one who feels this way.

What does a soulmate connection feel like?

A soul tie is just the feeling that another soul is present in your life for a reason. For example, if your life is extremely hectic and you meet a new potential friend or business partner, the feeling that you share a soul connection with this person may motivate you to make time in your schedule for the relationship. If a friend says they have to give up their pet because they have to move overseas unexpectedly, your clairsentient, or feeling, psychic pathway may give you the impression that you have a soul tie with this animal and that adopting it into your house is the proper thing to do for both of you. Soul ties might be thought of as the ties that bind, like in Bruce Springsteen's song!

Who can be soulmate?

A soulmate is someone with whom you have a natural or profound connection. Similarity, love, romance, platonic relationships, comfort, intimacy, sexuality, sexual activity, spirituality, compatibility, and trust are all examples of this.

Are life partners destined?

And we all thought I was the wise one for choosing such a fantastic companion.

You are meant to have the best life-partner in the world if you have produced the best karma in connection to your life-partner! Yes, life partners are the outcome of karma that has been created previously. If one's karma is good, one will find a nice life mate; but, if one's karma is poor, one will reap the consequences.