How I Meet My Soulmate

If you're anything like me, you'll look like a clammy, wet trainwreck after every workout. The gym isn't the place to flaunt your gorgeous side, but you don't have to look like a swan all of the time if you're serious about someone. If there's a regular at the gym you'd want to meet, go up to him or her when you're ready. Not to go all schoolgirl on you, but if approaching strangers makes you anxious, bring a friend with you. You're not the only one who feels this way.

What age are you most likely to meet your soulmate?

The typical woman discovers her life partner at the age of 25, while males are more likely to find their soulmate at the age of 28, with half of people finding ‘the one' in their twenties, according to the study.

They also discovered that most people waited five months to declare “I love you” for the first time, as well as update their relationship status on Facebook, and six months to be granted their own drawer at their partner's house.

You love them as a whole person

When you accept a person for who they are and don't strive to change anything about them, you've met your soulmate.

Giving someone the space to be themselves is part of loving them, or even liking them a lot.

You've discovered your soulmate if you're totally content with both their imperfections and their awesomeness.

You don't feel threatened by tough conversations

Even when things are bad, you don't worry that it'll lead to a relationship split.

You trust that everything mentioned is vital and necessary since you are familiar with each other.

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You can be intense with each other

You'll discover that conversations and even interactions with your soulmate are passionate all of the time, whether you're agreeing on a hot topic or battling to the death over something you believe in.

For many people who aren't used to this type of interaction, it can be scary and draining.

It's possible that you're stunned by someone not because you despise them, but because you're deeply attached to them and believe they're your soulmate.

You respect one another's need for alone time

It's difficult to tell someone you care about that you need time away, but if you're soulmates, they'll understand. They'll also appreciate the opportunity to spend some time alone.

You don't care if others want them

Because you know that soulmates are destined to be together, you don't become envious. While others may change their minds, your guy or gal will always be loyal to you.

It always feels like you against the world

You feel safe going forward no matter what the two of you are up to since you know you have each other's backs.

Whether you're applying for a job or trying to pay off debt, your soulmate will understand and encourage you.

Who can be soulmate?

A soulmate is someone with whom you have a natural or profound connection. Similarity, love, romance, platonic relationships, comfort, intimacy, sexuality, sexual activity, spirituality, compatibility, and trust are all examples of this.

What happens when you meet your soulmate for the first time?

Furthermore, finding your soulmate might have a significant impact on your sense of well-being. He added, “You also feel a sensation of oneness, as if you've found your other half.” “You may have a sensation of timelessness, as if you've known each other for a long time.” Despite the fact that everything feels brand fresh at first, and may continue to do so for some time.

That's not all, because your soulmate has the capacity to assist you in completely new ways. He went on to say, “You may also feel a sense of confidence and the power to actualize parts of yourself that were previously dormant.” “In a nutshell, you feel completely alive.” And that's a lovely thing.

How many Soulmates do we have?

You can have multiple soulmates. “You only have one twin flame,” says the narrator. According to the belief, if you meet someone with whom you have a strong connection, there's a good chance they're a member of your larger soul family.

Who is your soulmate?

“A soulmate is someone who has a long-term impact on your life.” Your soulmate is a companion on your life's journey; you both need each other to progress beyond your unique boundaries.”

Can a soulmate be a friend?

Yes, platonic soul mates exist. A platonic soul mate relationship is a friendship that can go almost as deep as any other. These connections, according to Nuez, will not feel like other “regular” friendships since you will be friends “at a soul level” and will most likely have a profound and instant identification upon meeting.

Also, don't undervalue the strength of these ties. Our platonic soul mates, according to Richardson, might be just as vital in our lives as our romantic soul mates. “If you consider terrestrial life to be a brief journey for the soul, as some spiritual people do, you'll want to travel with engaging, supporting companions—just as any character in an epic story or legend does,” she says.

It's also feasible (and perhaps likely) that you'll have multiple platonic soul mates during the course of your life, possibly even multiple at the same time. “You can find new soul mates at any time in your life. It doesn't have to be a childhood friend; it may be someone you meet at work or someone you meet in your 50s “Nuez explains.

Some soul mates come and go, while others stick around for the long haul, according to Richardson. These connections, regardless of their length, are an important element of the journey. She explains, “Just as the human body need food and drink, the soul requires companion soul mates.”

Is soulmate real?

Soulmates are real and can be confirmed by science, according to the very out-there website The Science of Soulmates. However, after reading through the lengthy, wordy site, you'll discover that the “scientifically verified” hypotheses stated on the site to illustrate that soulmates are real are quite woo-woo.

TL;DR: Soulmates appear to be one manifestation of the energy patterns that run through everything in the universe. “Scientific instruments recorded proof of a fundamental energy pattern that exposes the source of existence and the phenomena of soulmates,” according to the website.

Despite the fact that this “proof” is muddled and difficult to understand, it appears that some people believe that soulmates can be discovered by researching energy patterns. I'm open to this idea — I was raised in a nontraditional environment and am open to many transcendental concepts — but I'm not convinced this site actually gives much scientific proof that soulmates exist. So, it's back to square one.

Where does soulmate come from?

After a difficult split ten years ago, I started to look into it. I was interested in linking the different versions of the soulmate ideal across time as a historian of religion and culture with a background in the history of ideas.

In a letter dated 1822, poet Samuel Taylor Coleridge writes, “To be happy in Married Life… you must have a Soul-mate.”

Coleridge believed that a successful marriage required more than just economic and social compatibility. It necessitated a spiritual link.

Plato, the Greek philosopher, authored a treatise several centuries before Coleridge “Symposium” explored the causes for people's desire for a soulmate. According to Plato, Aristophanes, all humans were once united with their other half, but Zeus divided them apart out of fear and jealously. The transcendent sensation of two soulmates reuniting is described by Aristophanes as follows:

“And when one of them meets his other half, the real half of himself… the two are engulfed in awe of love, friendship, and closeness, and neither of them will remain out of the other's sight for even a second.”